penyesalan terbesar dalam hidup

1. I wish I’d had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.

This was the most common regret of all. When people realise that their life is almost over and look back clearly on it, it is easy to see how many dreams have gone unfulfilled. Most people have had not honored even a half of their dreams and had to die knowing that it was due to choices they had made, or not made.

It is very important to try and honour at least some of your dreams along the way. From the moment that you lose your health, it is too late. Health brings a freedom very few realise, until they no longer have it.

2. I wish I didn’t work so hard.

This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their children’s youth and their partner’s companionship. Women also spoke of this regret. But as most were from an older generation, many of the female patients had not been breadwinners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretted spending so much of their lives on the treadmill of a work existence.

By simplifying your lifestyle and making conscious choices along the way, it is possible to not need the income that you think you do. And by creating more space in your life, you become happier and more open to new opportunities, ones more suited to your new lifestyle.

3. I wish I’d had the courage to express my feelings.

Many people suppressed their feelings in order to keep peace with others. As a result, they settled for a mediocre existence and never became who they were truly capable of becoming. Many developed illnesses relating to the bitterness and resentment they carried as a result.

We cannot control the reactions of others. However, although people may initially react when you change the way you are by speaking honestly, in the end it raises the relationship to a whole new and healthier level. Either that or it releases the unhealthy relationship from your life. Either way, you win.

4. I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

Often they would not truly realise the full benefits of old friends until their dying weeks and it was not always possible to track them down. Many had become so caught up in their own lives that they had let golden friendships slip by over the years. There were many deep regrets about not giving friendships the time and effort that they deserved. Everyone misses their friends when they are dying.

It is common for anyone in a busy lifestyle to let friendships slip. But when you are faced with your approaching death, the physical details of life fall away. People do want to get their financial affairs in order if possible. But it is not money or status that holds the true importance for them. They want to get things in order more for the benefit of those they love. Usually though, they are too ill and weary to ever manage this task. It is all comes down to love and relationships in the end. That is all that remains in the final weeks, love and relationships.

5. I wish that I had let myself be happier.

This is a surprisingly common one. Many did not realise until the end that happiness is a choice. They had stayed stuck in old patterns and habits. The so-called ‘comfort’ of familiarity overflowed into their emotions, as well as their physical lives. Fear of change had them pretending to others, and to their selves, that they were content. When deep within, they longed to laugh properly and have silliness in their life again.

When you are on your deathbed, what others think of you is a long way from your mind. How wonderful to be able to let go and smile again, long before you are dying.

Life is a choice. It is YOUR life. Choose consciously, choose wisely, choose honestly. Choose happiness.
from~Bronnie Ware Platinum Quality Author

sambut merdeka..shuweet

selepas memasuki jusco di melaka,

mencari tempat nk berbuka puasa...,

sial punye jusco,tempat nk mkn pon xde,terpaksalah kami berebut2 mencari belas kasihan,

jam sudah menunjukkn 710,lg 5minit mau berbuka...,

tidak!!mak dye..,dgn pantasnya kami berlari2 mencari mc d..,

big mac pon big mac la..janji mkn..,

situasi di mc d.,tgk kiri kanan..>>>>>>>>>>>

pergh xde kerusi do.,acamana,haih..

bungkus jela.,lepak kat parking lot.adeh..,

pukul 9 do,jom la balik..,menaiki sarena mc shumaker.,bpk dye jln kampung 140km/h

gile babi..,

balik2 je kt kasturi..."part one turun!!!"

adish xsempat den nk mandi..ambik baju melayu terus trun.mmg bes la melekit2 satu bdn..

bau2 lembu masih melekat di badan.,tadi tegok lembu alex..

jom bergerak ke padang kawad sambut merdeka....,merdeka?mlm nh ke?2la happy sgt tegok lembu td terus sume lupe..hape nk jd la ngn bdk sekarng nh..,ceh,padahal aku pon same..

berbalik kpd padang kawad,pada malam itu sambutan agak meriah dengan adenye bunge api yang xberape berbunge la.,cam api welding je..hahha,tp xpe la janji ade..after that,ceh..mcm biase la nyayi lg merdeka..cam hafal je korang nh kn..,nk bwt doubtful debt pon terkedok..hahaha.,

tapi itu sumer x penting,yang utama semangat kemerdekaan masih ade dalam jiwa kami,walaupon xseberapa yang penting "ade" kn3..sebagai rakyat malaysia kami berbangga dengan kejayaan negara kami,

tengok semangat kami menyayikn lg partiotik..heh

tetibe je,

bile satu masalah menjadi pelbagai masalah..,
sering kali berlaku di pertengahan bulan..,
setiap org menghadapinye..,
maggie jd teman hati mereka, di kala pagi mahupon malam..,
dia ibarat tuan di dunia..,
tiada dia siapa la kita..
oouhh,duit duit..haih,

mc to ag

pergh,da lme rse xnk nek bas kude..,
dr mc smpi ag sejam je kot..
aku rse p.cik 2 cikgu mc schumacher..,
aku duk blakng da rse nk teberak ddk..,
mcm xde suspension bas nh,

melaka bebas asap rokok!!!

haha..hari pertama msk uitm lendu,usha2 sane sini xde mende bes pon..
sume biasa saja..tp kn time aku jln2 pusing2 ronde2 kt dlm nh,satu mende yg sgt menarik..
ade satu banner yg xpnh2 aku nmpk kt malaysia nh..
pergh memang xcaye la do..hahhaa,
aku memang solute la uitm melaka..,kt um yg universiti terbaek pon xde banner camnh..
hahah

thanks

Dukacita dimaklumkan bahawa anda TIDAK BERJAYA
dalam permohonan kemasukan ke IPTA Program Pengajian Lepasan STPM/Setaraf bagi Sesi Akademik 2010/2011.

standard budak x blaja

Matematik :  Fizik :  Kimia : Biologi : Sains Komputer : Pngk 3 subjek terbaik : Keputusan : GAGAL KELUAR PERNYATAAN PELAJAR GAGAL KELUAR (GK) : DUKACITA DIMAKLUMKAN BAHAWA PELAJAR YANG MEMPEROLEHI PNGK KURANG DARI 2.00 BAGI PROGRAM ASASI SAINS PADA SESI 2008/2009, DIANGGAP GAGAL KELUAR (GK) DAN TIDAK LAYAK DIPERTIMBANGKAN BAGI KEMASUKAN KE PROGRAM IJAZAH SARJANA MUDA DI IPTA KERANA TIDAK MEMENUHI SYARAT PENAMATAN PROGRAM ASASI SAINS 

bapak bodo an..

shit gle..,